算命:我28岁前不结婚单身一辈子？| Destiny Is in My Own Hands

小时候，算命先生说我如果在28岁之前不结婚，之后就很难找到老婆。当时我半信半疑，但这句话一直留在我心里。
A fortune teller once told me that if I didn’t get married before 28, I might never find a wife. I wasn’t sure whether to believe it, but those words stayed with me.

后来，我意识到与其被命运牵着走，不如主动出击。
Eventually, I realized it was better to take charge than let fate lead me.

我是一名程序员，平时的生活圈子很封闭，几乎没有认识异性的机会。为了改变现状，我开始尝试走出舒适区——加入读书会、兴趣小组、旅行群，甚至也学习一些人际沟通技巧。
As a programmer, my social circle was limited. To break out of that, I started joining book clubs, hobby groups, travel communities—even learning better communication skills.

正是这些改变让我结识了很多新朋友，也让我遇到了现在的伴侣。
These changes expanded my world and eventually led me to meet my partner.

命运也许有轨迹，但我相信，真正的转机来自于我们主动融入新的环境、不断成长。不靠玄学，靠行动，我改了自己的命。
Maybe fate sets a path, but I believe real change comes from stepping into new environments and constantly growing. I didn’t rely on superstition—I relied on action, and that’s how I rewrote my story.

Edit:2025-05-19 00:27 lgjj